Own cooking for dinner…after yonks

In this post, about 1 year 5 months back, (GOD that’s such a longggg time ago) I promised to show you all my version of chocolate pudding :)

And here it goes:

Nooo… the pic is sooo blurrr… Well, that’s my very disobedient phone camera. Made this pudding for a  friend’s request :) And since I was able to bring this onto the table at dinner time, let’s say this is part of well, tonight’s dinner

What else ;)

Seee, I told u… my phone camera is OBEDIENT…. I’m sure this pic would make the readers drool :p :p

That’s boiled brinjals (NOT YUCK) mixed with stir fried tuna… It was realllyyyy yummmmmmmmmmssssssssssss :D

Hubs gave thumbs-up to both… Doesn’t matter even if it’s flattering ;) ;)

Nighty night people… The once in a blue moon busy lazy lady needs some shut eye now………………..

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Role of Women in Islam (transcribed version of an audio lecture by Mohamed Hanini) PART 5

And the fact that she was in H’ijaab did not prevent her from being politically active, getting on her camel and leading the army against Ali Ralh’iyahallaahu A’nh in the battle of ‘Al-Jamal’ ‘The Camel’.

The whole battle in the year 36 was called Al-Jamal, the battle of the camel. Why? After the camel of A’isha Ralh’iyahllaahu A’nh’aa. Because she was leading the army, the reason for this leading was because she thought she is a protector of Islam. She thought Ali Ralh’iyahllaahu A’nh did not carry out the punishment against the killers of Usmaan, therefore he has to be brought to justice. And she led the army with Zubair, you know Abdulla Bin Zubair’l Awwam and they went after Ali Ralh’iyahllaahu A’nh and of course they were defeated and they reached an agreement and she went back home.

That did not prevent her, you know the fact that she was in H’ijaab and the fact that she was the mother of the believers and the ‘A’aalima’, the scholar of her time did not prevent her from taking an active role in the society at all.

If you are talking about another one, Asma Ralh’iyallaahu A’nhaa, the daughter of Aboobakar Ralh’iyahllaahu A’nhumaa, you know what did Asmaa do? We would not be Muslims today if it weren’t for Asma. Asma, a woman. As a matter of fact she was younger at that time. She was the first one who was struck across her face by Aboojahul because of Islam. And she was the one who was covering the tracks of Rasool (pbuh) and taking the food to him and her father in the migration to Al-Madina. She was playing a very important role. And the same Asmaa married Zubair Al-Awwam and not only Asmaa used to only prepare and take care of his Jihaad horse. He had a specifically trained horse for Jihaad. Not only was she the one who was taking care of that horse, she was the one who was fighting along side of her husband. And she fought in the Yarmook battle against the Romans. Actively engaged in military by the way now just two days ago there was an article in New York Times where they were sending women to Afghanistan still feeling whether women should be actually engaged fully in the battle field or not. Asmaa, the daughter of Aboobakar was engaged fully in the battle field in the battle of Yarmook. The same woman was the mother of Abdulla Bin Zubair who was a Khalifah. And she was the one who raised them. And she was the one who stood up to Al-H’ajjaaj, if anybody knows the history of Al-H’ajjaaj. Al-H’ajjaaj came after killing her son and crucified him. He was a tyrant. Killed her son and then crucified him. And he came to brag “What do you think I did with the enemy of Allah tha’aala”. He is asking his (Asmaa’s son) mother after killing him and crucifying him. She told him, “You ruined his Dhuniya, his world, his life and he ruined your Aa’khirah”. This is a woman. Does she sound scared? Does she sound timid? Does she sound somebody who was just “I can’t talk to men or my modesty…” This is the daughter of Aboobakar Siddeeq Ralh’iyahllaahu A’nhumaa. She said you ruined his life, he ruined your Aa’khirah. That was a position, a political statement against a tyrant ruler where if she had been killed for it Rasool (pbuh) said, “She would be with Hamzaa and equal to him” (because he said Hamzaa- the leader of martyrs). Hamzaa was a man who stood up to an unjust ruler and gave him advice and the ruler killed him. She (Asmaa) is in that category.

The Hayaa, that bashfulness, that modesty did not prevent her from taking that position or to be a force for Islam. Nusaibaa Bin-Ka’b as I mentioned, she was the one who was fighting in the battle of Uhud. We can continue this….

Some of our great scholars in Islam, there teachers were women. Ah-Shaafiee ralh’yahllaahu A’nh (one of the four schools of thought for those who do not know) where people used to say, the sun has not risen on anybody like Al-Imaam Shaafiee in the Ilmu, in the Thaqwaa. His language was a proof. You know when you say the Arabic language was pure at a certain time where you say, when the Arab says this, it means that. Ah-Shaafiee, when he spoke, that was equivalent to that. That was a proof for the Arabic language- this is a valid Arabic word, this is a valid meaning for the Arabic language. Ah-Shaafiee, one of his teachers was a woman, was a great grand child of Rasool (pbuh) and that was Sayyiadha Nafeesa who is buried in Egypt. And Ah-Sayyidha Nafeesa was a scholar. And Imaam Al-Shaafiee used to sit with her when he went to Egypt because she brought him to Egypt. He used to pass by her house and sit and she taught him Hadith. And when he was in his sickness bed, when he was dying he asked that she would come and make Solat Al-Janaaza on him and make Duaa for him. Because she was also a very good worshiper. You know, a righteous woman. Aalim and a righteous woman. Al-Imaam Ahmed as well, he took from her, the same woman. And this is by the way it is not only that.

Ummu Umar Binti Hassaan, the mother of Ummu Umar, so you find them, they were scholars at the same time they were mothers. And they were wives, and they were housewives and scholars. And our great Imaams used to go and learn from them.

Al-Imaam Maalik took from women, studied under women. Al-Imaam Bin Hazam (those who do not know him, he is a literalist) who grew up actually in Q’urthuba- in Spain. He was saying, I was raised by women. I did not even know any man until I became a young man. They (the woman) taught me Quran, they taught me my hand writing, it was by women who taught him that. You have some of our great scholars in history who were actually taught by other women. So I’ll give you an example.

Al-Haafiz Ibn Asaakir by the way when I say Hafiz is a terminology in the science of Hadith. And if my memory says correctly Al-Hafiz is a person who has memorized one million Hadith. And Al-Imaam Ibn Asaakir was a Hafiz and he studied under 80 Muh’ahdhithaa (80 women who were scholars of Hadith) and that’s without traveling. He was on a certain locality and there were eighty women who were capable of teaching him the Hadith.

Now when I say memorize the Hadith, I do not say “G’aala Rasool (pbub)”, you know “Khairukum Man tha’aalal Quraani Wa a’hlamaathi”- “The best of you is the one who learn the Quran and teaches it”. That’s not Hadith. The Hadith comes with a chain. And sometimes and often, the Hadith comes with multiple chains; from so and so otherwise we cannot be fairytale cannot be just “I heard”, It has to be a chain, all the way back to Rasool (pbuh), to the origin. So that when we say somebody memorized the Hadith, they used to memorize the Hadith with multiple chains back to Rasool (pbuh). Now when you say, I’m a Muhahdhith, somebody who has memorized a million Hadith it means on top of that you are able to critique the Hadith. And that is no small task. So Ibn-A’saakir studied under 80 women.

In the second century of Hijrah, Ibn-Hajar mentioned that 824 women (within the 100 year range) who were famous. What were they famous for? For their Figh and Ilmu-Hadith. They were Muj-thahidhaath. And these were the famous ones. You know there are many commons. Many below average, many below the famous status. Yaabi Sakh’aawi mentioned and this is in the fourth century. He mentioned 1070 scholar women in the fourth century. And this by the way are not my numbers. These are documented in books of history. Because if you find what they call ‘the books of Rijaal’, the science of narrators, you find sections that are just for women. Volumes just for women.

Women narrators, women jurists, women Fug’ahaa etc. All of this is something that was common throughout history. And this is not the time to sit and list every name but it is sufficient to say that there are thousands and thousands and thousands of them.

Now did that include every single woman that existed? No. But even among men not every single man was well known for anything. You know most of the people do not opt for this. But if you have at a certain time, you have over a thousand women who are scholars like now you come to the year 2010 and now you say we have a hundred, two hundred, three hundred. Now we brag about how many ‘H’uhfaaz’ we have, memorisers of the Quran. You know we have a thousand, two thousand etc in one locality. At that time you are talking about the 1000 scholars. Their starting step was the memorisation of Quran Al-Kareem. The scholars we are talking about are all women.

Of course when you look at the status of the Muslim Ummah today it has nothing to do with the past. Because not only did the Muslim women declined and we have to understand one thing. There was nothing called Muslim women who just went downhill, it was the Muslim Ummah that went downhill. We as a nation. The best nation has gone downhill. And part of going downhill, part of this decline in the intellectual level of the Muslim Ummah, women were just part of the process. And of course we declined due to different reasons. Some of them are internal and some of them are external. But with the decline, you talk about the negligence of the study of Islam, the negligence of the Arabic language, the negligence of the Quran, being busied by the Jihaad which Muslims did throughout the history etc neglecting the study of Islam and neglecting to continue with the building process, intellectual process while they were expanding etc (during the expansion of the state, building the intellectual process was neglected). So, many factors came in internally. Being impacted by foreign civilizations such as the Hindu civilizations or Hindu ideas, Greek ideas etc, it all contributed to the decline of the Muslim Ummah.

 

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Sawaddee Kha (Hello) from Bangkok

Hi from Bangkok…

Sorry dear readers.. I keep on ignoring the blog and hardly write any posts that I promise to do…

Believe me… I am busy with a lot of other things and at the moment I’m in Bangkok for the Meeting of Regional Programme Managers on Scaling-up of Adolescent Health Programme

Insha Allah will upload some pics and the adventure :)  Al-hamdhulillah for all the opportunities and challenges in life…

P.S. Nammi dear I remember your favor.. Insha Allah will send soon… sorry for the delay…

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Ramazan 2011

Hello beloved readers, hope u all are doing well and had a blessed Ramazan and an auspicious Eid too..

Was way too busy for blogging during Ramazan and even before that….. Anyways darling blog, I managed to capture some images of my gastronomic adventures this Ramazan.. Not that Ramazan is all about food and feasting. But we do like to have a nice meal when breaking fast and as long as we don’t spend the entire day on food related works, there is no harm in satisfying our ever crazy taste buds with Halal and good food…

Okayyy.. enough of typing.. Let me let the pics do the work :)

Gulha, Paan Kavaabu, An Arabian Rice Pudding (don’t know the exact name), Banbukeyo Hithi and Scrambled Eggs with Mushroom and Spinach

Moringa Leaves Omlette

Dhandi Aluvi Boakiba (Made from Manioca) Ignore the texture guys.. Trust me.. it was tasty :D :D

Stir fried anchovies with chilli flakes, onion, curry leaves, etc etc

Ayam Paprik

Aluvi Boakiba

Palak Paneer (Spinach and Indian Cottage Cheese) I did not make this one from scratch :p Just the ready to eat version which you need to heat and that’s it.. : Easy and Yummyyyy *The picture says it all.. Forgot to snap before eating*

Paan Boakiba, Fish Curry, Fried Rice and Pizza :D (The only proper and clear pic which I stole copied from bil’s fb)

To be frank, this Ramazan I didn’t get to snap too many pics and missed out snapping lots of yummy stuff… Cooking all alone and admiring your food while snapping from different angles is very different compared to admiring and snapping pics in front of others :p

Insha Allah let’s pray that we all get to fast next Ramazan.. May Allah bless you all loving readers who still visit the once in a blue moon blogger ;)

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Life as it is!! The bed of roses and the teary thorny struggle….

Who said life is ALL sweet, lovely, a box of chocolates or that life is love…. ALL LIES… Let’s be realistic…I bet all of you would agree that LIFE IS NOT SO SWEET ALL THE TIME…

There are time when life is really blooming with never ending joy.. But just as the seasons and weather change, so does our life.. Some days are boring and stormy, some days are teary, some days just does not make you agree to get out of bed and thrive:)

SOMETIMES,

Part of you feel like you are OK, but some how you have a feeling that life is full of problems.. rather storms waiting to break you apart…

Thunder storms  are waiting to attack you out of no where and you feel like you are carrying the entire world’s weight on your shoulders or rather on your head! Though you feel like you can handle this, life seems to be bleak with few positives to be proud of…

sooo much worries and life does not seem pleasant at all….

The wind does not care whether you are blown away or not and prepares it self for a heavy down pour…

It ‘rains’ cats and dogs and your life becomes too stormy with frightening thunder and lightening..

AND THEN,

The thunder storms slowly starts to fade away and life shows signs of sweetness with promising hopes waiting to be explored and enjoyed…

And sometimes, life is indeed a bed of roses with so much sweetness and sun shine :)

And that’s all about my version of life depicted through a rain storm during 28th November 2008 (If my memory serves me right) just as I reached home from college..The day was one hectic one with two colloquium presentations the next day and 4 assignments after the colloquium…

Yet, when I went to the balcony for some cool breeze, I was amazed by the scenery and all the mattered was storing these realities of life in my phone..  It felt so much like how I have written above for every pic… And now I’m glad I did snap those pics and enjoyed this scenes from my balcony at Desa Kiara Condominium :) And I’m sure that my darling Fary (my roommate who is more like a sis) will miss me and Desa Kiara soo much while reading this post ;)

Not only the rain, the cemetery also kept me conscious that one day I will be there and that I have so much to do before I go to that resting place… And that the cemetery will await us whether our life is all happy jolly or whether it’s just too hard and thorny to face…

Whenever I am sad and whenever I feel all alone and dreary, I remember this day and these pics.. How life was thrown at my face as a thunderstorm and how I learned my lesson that life is not meant to be always an easy road..

The truth is life throws so much at us. Be it anger, be it hatred, be it love, be it false accusations, be it compliments, be it challenges, etc etc etc, WE DECIDE HOW WE FEEL AND HOW WE ARE GOING TO ACT!

Let’s always be contented with our lives and face all the challenges of life with bravery and steadfastness. Insha Allah.

Allah (swt) never burdens a soul with more than it can bear :)

“Nothing will befall us except what Allah has ordained for us. He is our Protector. And upon Allah let the believers rely.” [Surah At-Tawbah: 51]

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Role of Women in Islam (transcribed version of an audio lecture by Mohamed Hanini) PART 4

The fact that he differentiated saying that this is only for the men and this is only for the women. You know it means that it is only suitable for the men, appropriate for them and inappropriate for the women. And by the way it is not a matter of ability, it’s not a matter of capability. It’s a matter of sometimes the nature of the woman herself or the man and sometimes it is the place , the role that Islam gave the woman in the Islamic society and it is the role that Islam gave the man is the Islamic society.

So for example Allah tha’ aalaa obligated the man to spend, that he is the breadwinner in the house “Wal Yunfig Kullu Zee Sa’athin min sa’athi”. Let everybody, every male, masculine, the masculine form. Let them spend to their best or to their capacity. This is something that shows that it is a obligation of the man to support the woman. It is not the obligation of the woman to support the man. And Allah tha’aalaa tells us as well for example that Shahaadha, the testimony of the woman in certain times is half the testimony of the man. And sometimes it is a full testimony (not half).

So for example Allah tha’aalaa put the life in a way or organized life in a way, or in the Islamic way of life where the woman in origin is a mother and a housewife, in origin. Does it mean she cannot work and she cannot study? No. Of course she can. Because of other evidences. But the point is what is the original role of the woman? The fundamental role of the woman is a wife/ mother etc. Therefore her natural place is not in the market, is not in performing contracts, is not in the public life if you wish and therefore you find in certain areas her testimony is what? Half the testimony of man. That’s not her sphere, period.

You know Allah (swt) says “Was thash hidhoo shaheedhan min’rrijaalikum”- “And make or have two witnesses of men”. “Fainllam yakoonaa rajulaini”- “If you do not have two men, then one man and two women”. “Mimman tharlh’auna minah shuhadhaai”- “Those (women) whom you are pleased of as witnesses. And then He (swt) gives you the reason. Why? Because one of them might forget so that she reminds the other one. This is not her sphere. This is not her area. But you find that at the same time, in certain situations her testimony is full testimony. So in a crime, a crime, a murder, any crime that takes place in a private life, the testimony of the woman is sufficient. And Rasool (pbuh) accepted the testimony of one woman in terms of matters of breastfeeding, in matters of marriage. You know, in these matters he (pbuh) took testimony fully. It is not because the woman cannot learn contracts or cannot learn how to do business. But this is the way Islam laid out life in general. And therefore any Islamic rule has to understood within the context with which it was revealed.

You find in certain situations I mentioned before that spending in a responsibility of the male, not the female. So you find in certain situations that you have the inheritance of the woman, half the inheritance of the man. Or to put it in the more actually accurate way, it is the inheritance of the man twice the inheritance of the woman. But in other ways, in other situations, her inheritance is a full inheritance. In some other ways/situations her inheritance actually is more than the inheritance of the man. In some situations, she inherits, the man does not inherit.

Now if you ask, if I take a poll around how many of us heard beyond the first incident? That the woman takes inheritance of half the inheritance of the man. All of us, most likely most of us will likely say ‘we only know about the first’. And I will mention why that is the case later on. But now we are talking about the role of the women in Muslim life. So you comment in this situation, “Why is the woman in this case, she is taking half of the inheritance or the man is taking twice the inheritance of the woman”. Because actually it turns out that in this case the one who takes twice her inheritance is her brother from her father’s side. What they called “U’sbaath”. And the man from the father’s side, your brother from your father’s side, in case you are not able to support yourself, he is responsible for your support even if you can work. If you decide not to work, he is responsible for your support in addition to the responsibility to support his mother, his wife, his kids etc etc. This is just the reality. But at the same time you find in the other situation where the woman takes the same share as the man. Where? You find it that when she has half brother meaning from her mother’s side. The brother from the mother’s side in Islam is not responsible for the support of his sister. Why? Allah tha’aalaa made it this way. So this is case where they take the same share. Is this the reason why? No. It’s just a study of reality. And this is something agreed upon by all scholars. And sometimes as I said, the woman takes the inheritance and the man is prevented from inheritance because of her position.

So if there are two sisters, they take two thirds (2/3) and their uncles, the brothers of the deceased, if there are 10, they will divide that one third (1/3) over 10. And the two girls, the two sisters are entitled for what? The two thirds of the inheritance. Why am I mentioning this? I will come back to it Insha Allah tha’aalaa later on.

But the point here is that we have to understand the Islamic rules as part of a whole. As part of a system, not in abstract. Not in the western context, not in a way that we heard about because somebody is critiquing or criticizing Islam. Put things in a context so that we can understand what Islam actually said. Then we can say, “Ok what is this”. But without having it in that context we are doing injustice to our understanding and definitely injustice to Islam itself.

Islam gives specific rules regarding dress code. So Allah tha’aalaa made the men dress up in a certain way. That they are not allowed to dress up in the dresses of women. And women are not allowed to dress up like men. Rasool (pbuh) says in hadith (Al-Bukhari) “La’anahllaahu muthashah biheena min rijaali binnisaa”- “Allah tha’aala cursed, damned those men who dress up like women”. “Wala’anahllaahu”-”And Allah tha’aalaa cursed, damned those women who dress up like men”. Those who put on the dress of men. Why? Allah tha’aalaa designated this way. That the women are supposed to dress up in a certain way and the men are supposed to dress up in a certain way.

My point is that in the origin, all rules apply across gender, without mentioning to gender. No body questions about the Solat, the Zakaat etc. But there are certain rules that are made an exception. For example Ummu Salamaa Ralhi’yahllaahu A’nhaa came and complained to Rasool (pbuh). She said “How come men are getting all the reward”. Look at her complaint. Her complaint is that it’s not that I’m not treated as a man. Her complaint is that how come all the men are getting the rewards and we women are not. They go to Jihaad and we don’t. That was her complaint. Even though some of them under Rasool (pbuh) actually participate in Jihaad like Ummu A’maaraa, N’aseeba Binti Ka’b, in the battle of Uh’ud where the S’ah’aaba ran away and her husband and 2 sons were actually protected by Rasool (pbuh) . But their complaint was how come they (men) are allowed to/obligated to the Jihaad while we (women) are not? They are getting the reward and we are not. So Rasool (pbuh) told them, “Your Jihaad is Al-Hajj”, meaning what? You get your reward of Al-Jihaad by doing Al-Hajj.Men do not do that and do not get that. The men when they go to do the Hajj, they do not get the reward of Jihaad. But women do. And that was the complaint of Ummu Salamaa Ralhi’yahllaahu A’nhaa. So they looked at life this way.

Whatever Allah tha’alaa did across the board, like Ummu Salamaa also in report, she was sitting and her maid was combing her hair. So she heard Rasool (pbuh) saying “Yaa ah yuhahnnaasu”- “Oh People”, so she told to stop, I’m about to go. So she told her “Why? He (pbuh) is calling the men”? She said, “I am one of the people”. She walked out to see what is that Rasool (pbuh) was telling to the people. Because she is one of the people. That’s how they looked at the rules. And therefore they went through life without having this comparison, understanding that Allah tha’aalaa revealed this Dheen to mankind. To human beings. And that there are certain rules that are specific to me (women), where at certain times I do not pray, certain times I do not fast, in certain I’baadhaath I have to make up what I missed, but in a certain I’baadhaath I don’t have to make up what I missed. I have rules that are related to me as a woman. There are rules related to me as a woman and therefore they are specific for me and this is what Allah tha’aalaa gave and they functioned in life and they were exteremly active in life where the issue of gender was never an issue amongst the S’ahaabaa Ralh’yahllaahu A’nhum. And I will mention only small examples because of the time.

First of all, the leadership. A’isha Ralh’iyahllaahu A’nhaa was not only a leader of the wife of the Rasool (pbuh), was our mother. She was not just the wife of Rasool (pbuh). Moosa Al-A’sha’ree said “Half of the Ilmu, half of knowledge was with A’isha”. There was nothing that we would go ask her, A’isha without her having some knowledge about that part of Al-Islam. So she was a reference point to the people in general. She was teaching Islam. The fact that she was in H’ijaab and I’m not talking about H’ijaab showing the face and the hands because the mothers of the believers, the wives of Rasool (pbuh) were in full H’ijaab. What they call it ‘the burq’aa”. That was a specific rule for them (Rasool’s (pbuh) wives). And some Muslims applied it to the rest of the Muslims, but Wallaahu A’aulam, it is the proper/stronger opinion is that it is for the wives of Rasool (pbuh) and that is, it is not a big deal. But the point here is that the fact that she is in H’ijaab did not prevent her from sitting with the Sah’aabaa and teaching them. And the fact that she was in H’ijaab did not prevent her from being politically active, getting on her camel and leading the army against Ali Ralh’iyahallaahu A’nh.

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A quick update…..

It’s been a month and more since I’ve been away from blogging.. So soorrryy darling blog and patient readers :)

I was a busy bee past few weeks. First it was an office trip to Gn Atoll that was more like a vacation ;)   followed by preparations for World Anti-Drug Day and celebrations of Anti-Drug day etc etc etc…………

Just for the record just to see if I remember it even now, the theme for this year was “Global Action for Healthy Communities without Drugs”. The celebrations were awesome and i must say that my very dear and hardworking colleagues and heads are the BEST :)

Back to blogging.. Insha Allah i will be back again this week.. And I hope all you patient readers are not mad at me for the absence.. ;) In the mean time do hop over to my dear friend Nammi’s kitchen and read through her lovely blog… Do visit Annie and her twins as well :)

Nammi, dear hope ur doing well. <3

 

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